Summer Walker & Sexyy Red: Singing, Men & Dating Advice | Over It Radio

Where's your house?

Where's your car?

I'm not buying us nothing to eat today.

I just bought us something to eat.

It's your turn.

We some queens.

Yes, queens of Atlanta.

You not even from Atlanta.

Have self-respect.

Go find another man.

All men aren't cheaters.

Sexy red.

You love it.

Come on, let me look you in the eye.

You taking your glass off, too?

It's getting real.

It's getting real.

What are you over?

Oh, my God.

These dudes.

Can we curse these niggas?

I'm sick of them.

I'm over it.

I'm just be single and do me.

Friend, I'm celibate.

I'm so sick of them.

Celibate or celibate?

I see I tried selling it, and that didn't work either.

So now you're just celibate.

Yeah.

Fuck it.

Yeah.

I be trying to be celibate, but then...

It don't be working out?

People be like, let me talk to you in person, and then, you know.

And then it's just downhill from there?

It's okay, you try.

I'm not right.

No way he's judging.

Do you have a song that you love right now?

Yes.

What is it?

It's called Look Like by Chicken P. I've been playing that song out.

Chicken P. We always find the most ghetto songs when we're with each other.

Just random ghetto songs.

I'm going to send you some songs to listen to.

You know how we be doing.

Shout out to Chicken P. I'm going to be listening to that later.

I'm going to give you my favorite songs by him.

Period.

When I first started listening to Sexy, I thought she was so cool.

And I was very, very pregnant.

I was like, what, seven months pregnant?

I mean, she was huge.

I was huge with twins.

We know why now.

Yes.

How did everybody know you was pregnant with twins?

I called her and I was like, girl, let's do a rap song.

But I can't rap.

I just like to do it for fun, like on some fun shit.

And so we put on our black Air Forces and we caught my little friend with his little ghetto car and we went to the gas station and shot a rap music video.

It was fun.

We was bouncing ass, standing up on top of the car, throwing money.

It was great.

Some are lying.

She said she can't rap.

She is lying.

She's a good lyricist, and she know how to rap.

I be like, bitch, can you do a rap song with me?

Because you got it in you, for sure.

I was just listening to y'all song the other day.

What song?

20s, 50s.

No!

Bills, we still in my Louis Vuitton hair.

Yo.

That's my song.

Take me to Rue Chris.

No.

I want to fuck y'all Smiths.

That's my shit.

Not you know the lyrics.

I swear I do.

That's funny as fuck.

No, when I'm really done with this singing shit, I'm going to slide on into the rap shit and don't forget about me.

You know I'm not kidding.

I'm going to get the chains and everything.

Speaking of chains, whose big ass chain is that?

Is that yours?

Yes.

You just be walking around with these fat ass chains?

Yeah.

But you a rapper rapper.

You should do something like that for Halloween.

Like, just tune into it.

On Halloween?

On some funny shit.

When your neck doesn't hurt?

No.

Sometimes it do hurt.

Yeah, it do.

All that ass you carrying around and all that chain and whoo.

I be in pain, girl.

I know.

It hurts so bad.

You look good, though.

Thank you.

You do, too.

You know you do.

You been working out or something?

Oh, my God.

You've noticed?

Yes.

I said I'm going to start working out.

Yeah, I can tell.

I've been trying.

You built.

I'm jealous.

Uh-uh.

Thanks.

No, I'm a real bitch, your buddy.

You make me want to try to take it serious and work out.

Not take it serious.

I feel like there was a minute when everybody was like talking shit about my BBL.

And now it's changed because I've gained that weight.

So I definitely know how to gain some weight.

I've gained like 15 pounds.

And I love it.

You look good.

Well, thanks, friend.

And all you have to do is eat five guys and heavy lift and drink protein shakes.

And then it just...

comes on yams, collard greens, you know all this shit.

Squats?

And squats.

You be doing squats?

I do lots of squats.

Oh my God.

I do lots of bench pressing my legs and I wrap my fucking stomach with saran wrap and go sit in the sauna, but that's not really carrying it.

How I want to carry it, I really want to go remove a rib, but we're not there yet.

Well, to the girls that we say we want to do it and we're not, let's try to take it serious because we want to look good.

Yeah, you look good, but when you first had that super baby weight, you was thick as hell.

I said, oh, shit.

I know.

Everybody, oof.

You said that like the niggas was just.

They was flocking.

They still be flocking, you know.

It's sexy.

You know what I'm saying?

To the day you die.

You know what I'm saying?

They gonna be flocking at your funeral.

Exactly.

Fighting outside the church house.

As they should.

Make sure y'all save my coochie.

You're dead?

You're just so ignorant.

I can't stand you.

It's the Aries in us.

Yes.

Oh, yeah, you are an Aries.

When is your birthday again?

Don't do that.

How you always forget?

Friend.

You ain't right.

12th?

That's your birthday or something.

No, mine is the 11th.

See, don't do that because I was fucking close.

I could have said any number.

I was close too.

You're right.

I said the 12th.

It's the 15th.

I know mine's after yours.

That's all I know.

It's okay.

We tight.

That's all we need to know.

Every gang.

Period.

Wait, did you know we had Zodiac signs, though?

I didn't know that.

We the Rams.

We the first Zodiac sign.

We the leaders.

Not the leaders.

We is the leaders.

I just knew we was fire signs, and now we got to stop fighting.

Yeah.

Stop being so aggressive.

Yeah.

Keep it cute.

Demure.

Demure.

Demure.

I be trying not to be sexy, man.

Not to be chillin'.

I've also been working out because I'm trying to get ready for this tour, so I'm not huffing and puffing, but you just got off.

How was it?

It was so much fun.

Going to different cities, meeting different people in all the cities.

The boys.

I had fun.

The boys?

I was meeting a lot of boys.

Okay.

It was fun.

I like mingling.

I see you.

I'll be having fun.

As you should.

Life is short.

But I want to say I'm so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so proud of you.

Thank you.

I seen a video the other day.

Bitch, it looked like a stadium.

It's a stadium, right?

Yeah.

Girl, the whole entire thing.

stadium was lit it was like a million flashes and they were just going crazy and you you know usually some people they have to have a lot of production they have to do a lot of things it was just you shaking ass that's gotta be fire to have that many people going crazy you just bouncing ass I love it they be going crazy cause I be like it's weird like I be looking at myself I be like me?

The what?

Y'all going crazy over me?

I be like, when I be with my friends and we be acting crazy, I be like, they be like, you famous.

This the shit you do.

No, that's star power.

Seriously.

Cause you, you was literally just down there being you and it was going nuts.

So I was like, that's fire.

I'd be nervous though.

I can't tell it all.

Bitch, I'd be nervous.

Like every time before I get on stage, I'd be right by the stage.

Like, like it's videos of me standing by the stage.

I'd be like.

I cannot tell it all.

Adrenaline be rushing.

Then I get up and I'd be like.

But I'd be really nervous though.

You was opening up for Drake.

Yeah.

How was that?

That was fun.

Drake turned me up.

Yes, he did.

Turned me up.

I love Drake.

Yeah, that was so much fun.

And he iced you out, too.

Yeah, we went to the Drake concert together.

We had fun, right?

I was drunk.

I had a good old time.

We was cracking up.

And it really wasn't that funny.

We was cracking up too bad.

All them little stupid ass inflatables and shit, the flying sperm, that shit was so funny to me.

The Drake concert, that was the time.

Yeah.

I like doing shit, going to concerts and shit.

Yeah, me too.

I was going to say, I wish you could have came to one of mine.

I'm sorry, friend.

You know that I can't just pick up.

You got to tell me a week in advance.

I got these churros.

I know.

My team said that, too.

They said, you probably told her the day of.

You did.

I did.

You did.

Okay.

I ain't mad.

I know I did.

But unless you want them kids on that stage, would you?

Girl, I will, my babies.

I'm so proud of you.

You've been working, getting your money, and still being a mom.

She's so cute.

I only seen a little picture, but I was like, aw.

Sheesh, we some mamas out here.

Yeah.

Sexy mamas.

Just need one more, and I'm there.

I said I want some more kids, so I want a lot of kids.

I don't care.

And you shouldn't.

We got to be fruitful and multiply.

We some queens.

Because the cat is good.

Yes, queens of Atlanta.

You're not even from Atlanta.

You're the queen of Atlanta.

The queen.

The queen.

I'm the queen of St. Louis.

How was that with the kids on the bus?

It was fun, like, to have my kids with, like, I'm going to work and then I can come back later on with them.

But, you know, that shit was stressful, though.

You like it?

Mm-hmm.

You getting on the bus?

You getting on the bus?

Yeah.

It's fun.

We was sleeping good.

And I got a newborn.

Oh, my God.

That bus ride, we was in the back.

That sleep on a tour bus is the fucking worst.

What?

It's just boom, boom, boom.

Is you crazy?

On them fucking speed bumps and pot holes and shit.

It puts you to sleep.

I'm the type of bitch, I don't like no, shut up.

Everybody be quiet.

I don't like no movement.

I don't like no sound.

I don't like nothing.

Oh, God.

I can't sleep on them buses.

No, I can't believe you said that.

I'd be so, putting me to sleep, rock me to sleep for real.

But you're going to have fun.

And I'm going to try to come into one of your things, too.

Just tell me what cities you're going to be in.

And if I'm, you know, around, I'm going to pop out.

Well, thank you for your support, friends.

See, now I'm depressed.

Okay, let's change subjects.

Okay, well, are you working on an album or not?

Mm-hmm.

I got some stuff coming.

How's it going?

It's going.

It's going.

I'm loving it.

I know it's going, because it's you.

But give me something else.

I'm working on an album.

It'll be out soon.

Stay tuned.

All right, period.

Sexy president.

Wait, wait, wait.

I have another question.

What?

Are we going to get some more singing from you?

Yes.

I like singing.

I say, whoo!

Bae, I love you.

You're my everything.

This one's for you, baby.

I love that song.

Bae, I love you.

She an R&B singer, y'all.

We finna switch.

Right.

For real, we finna switch.

Yeah, we finna switch.

Evil Twin.

Yep.

Because I be like, man, fuck these niggas.

But then when I be outside, I be looking for the niggas.

So it's like, make your mind up.

Is it fuck them or is it suck a bald head?

You want to be with them.

I'm sorry.

I didn't know where you were going with that.

I heard, is it over or is it suck a ball?

That's all I heard.

Girl, I said suck a ball head.

Yeah, I didn't know.

I'm going to be a suck a ball and go get these niggas.

Oh, are you going to be a suck a ball?

I'm going to be a suck a ball head or is it fuck these niggas?

Oh, I thought it was like, is it fuck these niggas or I'm sucking balls?

No.

Okay, I got it.

It's fine.

For real, because you know, like, when it be a nigga playing with you and they be lame, you be like, man, fuck that nigga.

I ain't going to text his ass back.

And then he texting, you be right texting him back.

Like, you know what I'm saying?

Yeah.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I have, like...

I know she feel me.

Yeah, I've gotten to a point, friend, where I just don't care no more.

Like, my phone has never been so dry in my life.

I've blocked everybody.

For real?

I don't go nowhere.

I don't talk to nobody.

I just go to work.

I be with my kids.

I go home.

Because I can't do it.

So...

That's how I be.

And then I'm talking all this stuff, knowing as soon as I go out, somebody try to talk to me, I'm finna be like, ugh, stay, like, get away from me.

Don't talk to me.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

You're young.

So what that mean?

Pop this pussy.

What are you telling me this for?

What are we getting at?

I'm sorry.

It's like, I haven't been around.

No, I'm serious.

I've been locking myself in the house.

I only leave to go to church and shit.

Like, I haven't been around somebody in so long.

So you're fucking funny.

You're catching me off guard.

So what that mean?

Since when I've been going to church?

No, seriously.

Seriously.

But yes.

Yes, pop it.

Pop it severely.

Just wrap it up.

Right.

Because, you know, with popping it comes gifts, money, and inspiration for new music.

Yeah.

And maybe, if you're feeling frisky, a bundle of joy.

So you pop it if you want to.

I guess.

Yeah, just for the right person.

I don't just pop it just to pop it.

Period.

I'm not easy, baby.

It's sexy.

Uh-huh.

You got to work for it.

What a ball is that?

Period.

I ain't messing with no mode.

Scrubs.

Yeah, scrubs.

I ain't going to say what they really is.

Bums.

I'm not messing with no more bums.

I ain't playing.

Yeah, especially, you know, it's getting cold outside.

You have to beware.

Yeah.

They're looking for somewhere to stay.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You're not going to bring your game into my house.

Leave no shoes.

No.

Where's your house?

Where's your car?

I'm not buying us nothing to eat today.

I just bought us something to eat.

It's your turn.

It was my turn the last five times.

Oh, we are leaving all that behind.

Exactly.

So if, yeah, if you're not doing any of that, then you just, you pop it if you must.

Yeah, if I want to.

If you want to.

Yeah.

Okay.

I might.

I like that song.

Me too.

How you feel about it?

I like it and I think they like when we work together.

Mm-hmm.

Because they liked it the first when we did the rap song and then we did a singing one and they liked it too.

When I'm done with this, like the singing thing and I stop taking things seriously, I really want to do a mixtape with you.

You always say these things.

No.

We can do it now.

No, friend, we can't do it now.

I'll get canceled.

Really?

Yeah, because I'm going to say some shit.

You're not supposed to curl what they think, though.

Friend, I have bills to pay.

Can we do a crazy song like the one you did with the girl?

We was like, toes white.

You know, this is tight.

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

I'm trying to go like, I'm trying to get stupid.

I want you to do that because you can talk some shit.

Like a good little mixtape.

Or write me a song then.

Since you scared to do it, I'll do it.

Oh, my God, I'm a writer for Sexy Red.

Because remember you sent me them other songs, and he was like, which one you want to hop on?

And them rap songs you had.

I was like, some will snap.

Like, imagine if I was to say it.

They'll love it.

Yeah, yeah.

You can say it.

I got you.

I got you.

Period.

I'm for real.

Yeah.

We split this.

You know.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Bust it down.

You knew it.

Recently, Taylor Swift posted a video with your music in it.

What was your reaction?

How did you feel?

It was crazy because the night before that, me and my peoples, we was just saying, like, you should do a song with Taylor Swift.

I'm like, I will do a song with Taylor Swift.

I be into all kinds of crazy shit.

People y'all probably wouldn't think I would work with.

I be straight bumping that music while I fuck with them.

I'm like, hell yeah, that's some other kind of shit.

Yeah, so I was in shock when I seen that.

Like, all Taylor know me?

Okay, what's up, Taylor?

The manifestation is real.

It's real.

That's fire.

Yeah.

Nah, friend, we know you'll do anything.

We've seen you doing the, what would you want, WWE Smackdown?

Yeah.

But you just be doing anything.

Anything.

And I love it.

Yeah.

You know how big that is, right?

It's Taylor Swift.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We got to get a song in.

What y'all going to sing about?

I can do that.

You know, I'm versatile for real.

You going to make her rap?

She can rap or I.

You know, we'll put some shit together.

I know we could.

I can't wait.

Get you a whole new audience.

That's what I'm trying to do.

That good money.

I've seen you also, speaking of doing different genres and carrying on, you was singing We Are Young with all your heart and your mic on the stage.

That's your shit?

That's my shit.

I know that song word for word.

Like back in the day, when I used to get ready for school, six in the morning.

Y'all know how y'all turn the TV on, all them songs be on and stuff.

I used to be getting ready to all that shit.

Fireflies, y'all know that song?

You know Firefly?

Yeah.

How go?

Can I get the firefly?

Yeah.

Look at that.

She is just, you never know with sexy.

You never know with me.

Oh, you know this song?

Somebody that you used to love.

That's my shit.

You didn't have to cut me off.

That's my shit.

This is hilarious.

I would have never thought that you would be listening to any of this shit.

Yes.

I love that.

So you could just go to a rock concert and rock out with your cock out.

Blend right in.

Rock out with your cock out.

Have a great time.

Yes.

I love that.

Is you into comedy shows?

Did you go to a comedy show?

I love comedy shows.

I wish Bernie Mac was still alive.

I know.

Like, I...

I do shit like that.

I love just anything that's just gonna make me laugh.

Me too.

And that's why I fuck with you.

Because you ain't no bougie bitch.

Yeah, girl.

I'll be with whatever.

Like, whatever make us have fun, I don't care.

You're going to make sure we have a good time.

It was the fact when we all went out that night and we was on that car.

That whole night was just nuts.

You shot the music video.

Then we was running out because they was shooting.

Then we hit the club.

We was standing up.

We was on our head.

Then we was on the top of the car and ass was out.

It was...

Didn't you go home with a bust lip?

Yes, because you had everybody thinking I had that shit.

They was like, bitch.

Yeah, they thought you had.

I'm like, my friend hit me in the fucking lip.

They thought you had some shit, bitch.

I'm sorry.

It was a bruise.

It was a bruise around it.

And then it was a cut on my lip.

I'm like, oh my God.

I already know what people think.

But that's how you got to go out.

When you go out.

You go out with a bang.

Go out with a bang.

And you had a scratch on your thigh?

I did.

We came home bleeding that night.

It was war.

But you know, every time we go out, we always have fun.

We do.

Remember that was like, some of y'all never do this when you with us, but every time sexy around.

Because you like to have a good time.

I don't know.

It's just the vibes.

Like we just be on the same.

We've talked about being over it, but something I want to do here is talk about overcoming it.

So we want to support all of you listening by giving advice.

We got a fan to call in to share what they're going through.

So let's take a listen and see if we can help.

Hey Summer, it's Angel calling in from Chicago.

I need your advice.

So basically, I've been with my boyfriend for nine years and he's cheated on me too many times, literally twice, in the apartment that we share and with my quote unquote best friend.

And I guess I feel like I need to stay with him because I literally see this man as my future husband.

the father of my kids okay i already got the names in place but it's like i'm also afraid of like being single um i don't know i need to hear from you because i know you can give it to me the way i need to hear it and just let me know what you think she don't need to be asking us because that was the wrong answer you talking about some twice that ain't shit friend no that's not gonna be cheating like no you're right no you're dead real bad she's at nine years he only cheated twice girl take that man back

It's okay.

Niggas going to cheat.

They going to do that.

They going to do that.

That's why I say this is wrong.

This is actually the two wrong people to ask because I'm not going to lie.

I don't want to send these young girls down this path.

It's two different paths they could take.

I'm going to tell them the two paths.

I'm going to go.

No, you go.

Well, give her the advice.

I mean, people shouldn't be accepting that.

But you are right.

Like literally two time is nothing.

But friend, we can't sound like this.

We have to work on ourselves and accept better.

But if you get with the next dude, they're going to cheat, too.

It's like I should have just said one last.

No, I totally agree with you there.

They're all off and there's like they're not.

They all act like that.

But there's some people.

That's why I never say it, because there's some people who genuinely feel like there are some men who don't cheat.

And they'll argue down about that.

And then they'll make it be like, oh, y'all bitches just with them niggas that be cheating.

So that's why I don't say nothing.

But no, babe, they're all cheating.

So I say go back to like, what the fuck?

Nah, if it was like some real, like if he crossed the line with who he cheated with, that's different.

But if there's some shit you can get over.

Did he fuck your mom?

Or a friend or somebody do your hair like.

No, friend, we can't sound like this.

Go back.

Don't go back.

Have self-respect.

Yeah.

oh yeah you're right you're right go find another man all men aren't cheaters that's terrible oh my god no the next one isn't gonna do the same thing yeah the next one's gonna be it yeah for real yeah

But, and I can also say, you've been with him for nine years, girl.

You might should break up with him, get you a break, and see what life is like.

Because, like, you know how you can get back to yourself, get back to you, have fun, see what them other niggas be like, because you've been with him for nine years, girl.

It's a whole new breed of niggas.

Actually, no, you got to leave, because nine years, where's the ring at this point?

Girl, it's new breeds of niggas out here.

It's new generations.

You know, they done changed.

You could have been married by now, God damn.

Oh, no.

No, yeah.

Nine years?

Yeah, we better be married.

You would sit with a nigga for nine years and no ring?

I ain't gonna lie.

I've been with my, I knew my baby, well, I ain't been with him nine years.

Yeah, you right.

Nah.

You would do that though?

Uh, I might start cheating.

That is not what I was saying.

I meant like leave, not like start cheating.

Would you leave if you ain't got no ring?

How long you gotta be with them tonight?

You got three years.

And after this, like, what we doing?

Have you noticed that none of my baby days have lasted more than two years?

Why is that, Summer?

Because if you can't get it together in two years, I don't know.

I just got to go.

You don't play that, Summer.

Yeah, I do not.

I ain't going to lie.

One thing about Summer, when I be around her, yeah, she strict with these niggas.

I be like, Summer, I wish I could be shown like you.

Oh, bitch, I hate it.

That's why I'm like this right now.

I don't give a fuck how much I like you.

I swear to God, love you down.

I'll block that motherfucking number because if you playing...

Yeah.

I done seen some of, like, not get fucked and be strong.

Oh, yeah.

On my birthday.

We not gonna say who.

On my birthday.

I would've followed it.

This nigga flew out to where we was at in Puerto Rico.

Crawling all her friends.

Crawling all my friends.

Got a yacht.

Got a cake.

Got a...

He like, I'm trying to get her these chains.

Drop the jewelry.

I still.

She still.

I didn't see that nigga at all.

And he was calling me.

I'm like, Summer, you being, you strong.

Because I would have folded.

You would have folded too.

Your man flew out of town to make up with you.

No.

Oh, baby, I'm leaving y'all.

I'm going with my man.

To leave, now that's really fucked up.

To leave all my friends that came out there.

Oh, you dig praise.

If you had have left all of us for that nigga.

I would have been with y'all for a minute then when it's time to go to sleep.

We ain't sleeping together.

I ain't hoes.

Peace.

Daddy wasn't there.

Peace.

Daddy wasn't there.

Peace.

You say Austin Powers.

You never seen Austin Powers?

Yeah, with Minnie Mee?

Yeah.

Minnie was like, daddy, at the beginning of the movie.

Daddy wasn't there.

When he was singing that song.

Which one?

Oh, I think it's the gold member.

The gold one.

No, but who was singing it?

Austin was.

Austin was singing it.

Y'all seen Austin Powers before.

Y'all know what I'm talking about.

Daddy, change my underwear.

Take me to the fair.

You don't know that song?

I kind of remember.

It's been a long time.

It's funny.

I love that song.

Daddy wasn't there.

Peace.

You want me to be honest?

I do.

Like, because this was hard to do.

I got over my BD.

You know when you love somebody, but they just not right for you, and you just got to, like...

I overcame that.

Because I was depressed for hell.

It was hard.

But once I got over it, I swear I was over.

Like, I was back.

I'm like, yes, I love these meetings.

Now I'm back.

I'm back.

Everybody knew I was back, too, because they was just happy.

They like, yeah, I could tell.

Like, you in good spirits.

And I was like...

And I answered the phone.

I was not tripping off it.

Like, do you.

I'm cool.

You know, that was like my biggest thing because that's depressing.

Well, I'm proud of you, Frank.

You know, a lot of people don't get over their baby daddies.

A lot of people drag that shit out to the day they die.

Girl, the kid's 18.

You still talk...

past 18 you still the kids are grown and they still can't get over that baby daddy so that's really that's bigger than what most people think for real i don't see how bitches still maybe you got a deadbeat baby daddy but you still fucking with him i'm not gonna cap babe like we already talked about how strict i am but that baby daddy shit i think like and i'm not proud to say like oh i'm the best baby mama you can have but i really am like because i promise to god

I'll never ask you who you with, what you doing, where you at.

For no money.

I'm going to ask for some money now.

Oh, they don't have it.

They don't be having it.

Baby, I don't care if it's $20.

I got that handout.

Ooh, now I get on their nerves about that money.

But besides that...

I will not bother you.

I don't know why anybody wants to be with their baby daddy.

Like, if a nigga didn't do what they were supposed to do for your child and your family, why does that still turn you on?

Right.

Like, why would that turn you on?

That's nasty.

How do you still fuck this man?

Yeah.

Remind ya, I'm kinda wet, runnin' down this vagina.

You never heard that song?

No.

What?

You gotta listen to Cupcake.

It's okay.

Burp that dick till it come.

Oh.

You know the song?

No.

Okay, I think we should just go out with... No, no, wait.